The Art Of Fingering

Techniques On Pleasuring The Vagina

Many inexperience lovers out there take the term "finger fucking" too literally and believe that jamming their fingers into the soft folds of a woman's vagina is the way to go. Can we say "Ouch!"

The ultimate tip of this article is to suggest that you have a woman masturbate to show you what she likes first. We will say this many times... communication in any sexual experience is the key, and a visual display to show personal preference is not only arousing, but helpful!

Let's start with preparation

Clean Hands
You will want to wash hands well to make sure that you do not introduce harmful bacteria into the vagina or introduce it into the urethra.

Avoiding A Urinary Tract Infection (UTI)
Unfortunately, there can be some negative side affects to making contact with the urethra. The urethra is sensitive and is easily irritated. It is fairly easy to expose the urethral to bacteria that is harmful when introduced and thus often results in a UTI. The activity that can cause a UTI can be sexual or non sexual.

Finger Toys

Adding finger sex toys into your bedroom play can make your lover beg for more! Use for anal and vaginal play!

A woman who wipes her genitals after urinating from the back (dragging harmful bacteria from the anal region to the urethra) can introduce the makings of a UTI. Any sexual activity that makes contact with the urethra whether it is from fingers, a sex toy, the mouth, the penis, etc. can result in painful urination and infection. To help prevent infections and reduce the chances of irritation, a woman should drink lots of water and urinate just before and right after urethral stimulation.

Taking precautions such as washing whatever is going to come into contact with the urethra beforehand may assist in preventing such an infection. If an infection occurs it is easily treated with antibiotics. If left untreated the infection can become more serious and spread into the kidneys.

If you ask most women who have had a UTI, they will tell you that it is pretty painful and something that you would go to a medical facility at 3am if you had to so that you could get some relief!

Shorten Finger Nails
Trim fingernails, so as to not cause pain or tears.

Lubricant
Have the necessary tools, and toys such as lubricant, STD protection (if needed). Using lubricant is always welcome, as no matter how excited and wet a woman gets, that moisture is easily taken away and rubbed onto the fingers and hand leaving her feeling a bit tender.

Atmosphere
Creating a relaxing atmosphere can also include doing some sensual foreplay. Get into the mood doing such activities as: massage, using sweet or spiced body lotions or oils, soft kissing, a bubble bath, and many other creative ventures.

Finger tips that tease and play with the clitoris in the beginning of a fingerings session will create a nice introduction to getting a woman ready for penetration clitoral stimulation will provide a nice opening, so let's start by discussing the clitoral orgasm.

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Doggy style and rear entry positions

Most men love them, while some women hate them, but sex aficionados agree that rear entry positions are fun and terribly sexy. The animal inside comes to life as the lovers assume the position of animals for some hot, fast and deeply satisfying sex. The best thing about doggie style and all the other rear entry positions is that they allow for deep penetration and fast action. Also, if the guy is careful, the penis gets to rub against the clitoris like there’s no tomorrow and the lady can go over the edge time and again. Tell me that’s not incredibly sexy.

First and foremost, rear entry positions are cool because of the sheer exotic feeling. While they’re not as exotic as anal sex, you have to realise that these positions are one step away from anal sex and might actually be used as a prelude to some back door fun.

What’s more, rear entry allows the man to explore his partner’s body, play with her breasts, kiss her neck and whisper sweet or dirty words in her ear. They are also great positions for men who are a bit unsure of themselves or not very experienced because the man has full control over penetration depth, angle and speed.

Some women like doggie style because all they have to do is to brace themselves and ride the wave to pleasure, while the men get to do all the work. Also, deep penetration is definitely a winner among some ladies, especially if the guy is not very well endowed.

Men love it mainly because of the feeling of domination and the amazingly tempting view of a woman’s ass up in the air and ready for sex. Let’s face it: being in control and treating yourself to an awesome sight is a huge turn on.

Not to mention that it’s nice when the woman does all the stabilizing, leaving the man free to focus on his and her pleasure. The basic rear entry positions are the classic doggie style, with the woman on all fours and the man kneeling behind her, and the upright variation, where the lovers lift their torsos in the upright position after penetration.

You can also try rear entry with the lady bending over the edge of the bed or over a table, but you will have to take into account the differences in height, if any. Upright doggie style is a versatile position because it can be used both in the bedroom and outdoors, for those of you who like to get in on outside the house. Just have the lady place her hands firmly against a wall or tree and go at it. Use your hands to explore, instead of just placing them on her hips, and don’t forget to reach around and rub her clitoris.

She’ll love you for it. Another good idea is to try and hit the G-spot. Rear entry positions are perfectly suited for G-spot rubbing because the penis is aimed at the right spot. So keep these tips in mind and have a lot of fun.


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